Prayer has been the thing that finally made it possible for me to break through my mediocrity in faith and grow after so long in a Spiritual winter, as a friend would say. Before I begin, let me start by saying this is in no way intended to be preachy, or imply that I have the answers, but merely to state that this has made a big difference in my prayer life and closeness to Him, that said, here goes. In my searching for closeness with God, I keep going back to a passage I read in 1 Kings 3:5-14. In this section of scripture, young king Solomon is summoned into communication with God while he is asleep and dreaming. God asks Solomon “Ask for whatever you want me to give you”. Wow, what an invitation yet Solomon keeps it simple, and asks for discernment in judging wisely.
I have mentioned this passage before in my writings, but there is more that we need to discuss about it, as the Spirit won’t let it go and keeps leading me back to it. So let’s hit it again, while it was not technically a prayer, it still kind of is a prayer. In my thoughts, a prayer is a direct communication with God, Solomon was doing that although in a dream. God asks Solomon a question, Solomon answers the question, which I would consider lucid thought and therefore would place it on a par with prayer. That said, my real reason for this path is to determine the nature of God concerning prayer. God was really happy with Solomon, when given a blank check, he took the minimum and asked instead for wisdom rather than the maximum, palaces, women, wealth, domination, etc.. He was so happy with Solomon that he decided to bless him with all of the things that Solomon chose NOT to ask for, palaces, women, wealth, domination.
My prayer life has changed a lot during just the last year, and I must say it has made all the difference in my relationship with God. We are given many examples of prayer in the Bible to model our own prayers from, yet I chose to model my prayer life after what I saw others doing instead. One other thought that changed my idea was when my pastor at church stated “if your prayers are all about you, asking for this and that from beginning to end, with no thanks added in, are you not acting like a spoiled child who keeps asking again and again for a toy until he gets it”. That was me, God please do this for me, do that for me, give me this blessing, give me that blessing, thanks for Your Son, in His Name, Amen. My prayers were all about me and mine, but mostly me.
First, here is how a typical prayer went for me. Dear God, thank You for our blessings, please watch over and protect us and keep us. Protect and keep my daughters in college out of state, help no harm to come to them. If someone is traveling, please get him or her there and back safely, Help me to get that promotion at work dear Lord, Help me to keep my job God. Please keep us from getting sick, and please help us to get well, etc., ect., etc..
In Your Sons name, Amen. In all of this, only one thank you and I didn’t even spend any time giving it, just kind of went by it quickly. In Matt 6: 7-8 we read
7And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. 8Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.
So knowing that, I have spent a lot of time telling God what he already knows, and even knew before I asked him.
Being a follower of Christ doesn’t mean life is going to be easy, in fact, if you are walking in faith, there is a very good chance your trials are just going to increase, If the devil doesn’t have you, he is going to kick it up a notch or two, and if you aren’t feeling the heat, examine your walk. That said, I now would pray a bit differently, for instance this section, please watch over and protect us and keep us. Protect and keep my daughters in college out of state and help no harm to come to them. I might now say Lord, please help my girls to have a closer relationship with you, help my daughters in college Lord to walk in faith, help them to be Your girls. Help them to turn to you in times of trial, help them to use the Holy Spirit as a guide. If someone is traveling, please get them there and back safely, I would now pray Lord, help us to be ready to greet you at all times. Help me to get that promotion at work dear Lord, Help me to keep my job God. I now ask God place me wherever you want me, wherever I will best glorify you.
A healthy Christian walk will be riddled with tests, temptations and persecutions up to and including asking some of us to be tested unto death. More of us now than ever are dying for their faith, and I am no longer going to ask God to steer myself or my family away from persecution, but to give us the strength and faith to endure the persecution. I will no longer pray for financial stability or security, because when I am comfortable, I cease to grow. Hmm, okay so now you have a list of what you will no longer pray for Jim, what is left? I pray for others in need, others who do not know Him, I ask Him to daily put me where He wants me, to make straight paths for my feet. I ask him to help me take away my pride, anger, lust, material desires, and to help me be submissive to Him and the Spirit that leads me, and I actually started praying for all of those people I would say “I’m praying for you” to. I started praying for my enemies, not for them to be a footstool, but for their salvation and wisdom.
I want you to know, these things DO NOT come natural for me, I am a selfish, prideful, lustful, materialistic man at heart, and it is in my nature to put myself first. But it is not about me, it is about Him and we have so many examples to choose from, and they all lead back to humility. God Bless and Keep You-Always
JFT
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